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Make Insecurity Your B***h this year!

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I want to briefly discuss two things today, the details of this outfit of course, and I also want to talk about somethings that have been weighing on my heart lately. But first I have to say this…the verbal and emotional attacks on women have GOT to stop.

Women, we are literally at war with each other. But some of us are literally at war within ourselves. And trust me when I say this, when a woman is at war within herself it shows, and baby it shows bad!

I have always had a computer in my household since a very young age. I remember when desktop computers started becoming more popular and common, I remember being one of the first amongst my elementary school classmates to have a computer at home. I was crafty with AOL instant messenger (aka AIM) unlike no other. When MySpace got hot, I knew how to twerk the hell out of some HTML and garnered a pretty large following compared to the average user. I latched on to Facebook and eventually YouTube pretty early on to.

Of course I never foresaw any of those websites becoming nearly as popular as they ended up, I just used them because I thought they were fun. Over the years I must admit as I finally began to grow into my looks I knew a thing or two about how to take some good photos, so selfies really aren’t new or revolutionary to me! lol

But anywho the point I want to make about social media is what it’s evolved into now. From makeup bashing, to the natural hair cat fights. It’s not enough to just ‘do you’ anymore. If you wear weaves and wigs, you’re a sellout. If you’re hair is natural and you color your hair, you’re not natural enough. I have seen some of the girls I know and love on Youtube literally go viral, all for being poked fun at for what they look like without makeup.

What was once, for the most part, a way for people to just connect and keep in touch with friends has now become an opinion dump for people to say whatever they want to whomever they want with seemingly little to no remorse or consequence.  Today it’s so easy to completely humiliate or embarrass someone and having them go viral.

And it’s almost always about women!!! Maybe I over analyze because I am a woman, and not to take away from the media’s pathetic portrayal of my brothers in this country, but it seems like the scrutiny on women happens WAY more frequently than it does for men, by far.

Just look at instagram! How likely are you to come across a meme that says something like “b*tches be like”, “hoes be like”, gold diggers this and gold diggers that. I mean what on Earth?! Don’t even get me started on the whole Ray and Janay Rice controversy, because apparently according to some folks, if a man beats his wife and she does not leave the marriage it is SHE who deserves it.

I remember when Carolina Berg Erikson posted an image of her post pregnancy body within a week of giving birth on instagram and got completely read for filth being called every single name in the book for looking damn good not just considering the fact that she just had a baby, but for looking good period. What gender do you think most of the comments were coming from?! I’ll let you take a guess…

I saw this quote courtesy of @hippie_heathen on instagram: “Society loves an insecure woman. You can be pretty but don’t you dare recognize it. You can be smart but you BETTER minimize and downplay it.” I can identify with this because it’s SO true. How many times have you seen a photo of a woman online wearing a sexy outfit and in the comments section she gets called all kinds of crazy names, whore, skank, slut, etc. Just for being confident and looking good? I have experienced that myself several times which partially prompted me to write this.

Listen, we KNOW we all have opinions, but we all aren’t obligated to listen, or care for that matter!

Sometimes jealousy is rooted in accountability. Like “I can’t do it, and I can’t have it, so help me God if someone else does”…type of mentality. Also known as ‘crabs in a barrel’. I am addressing this issue in the best way I know how without trying to generalize a group of people because I do have hope in us. But my message is for us as women. The emotional and verbal attacks that I see (in my experience) are mainly amongst each other. And I believe the reason why it’s so easy to clown on a woman on social media, is because they are easy targets and it’s a formula proven to work. Alls you gotta do is create a meme or a joke with a before and after picture of a girl with and without makeup and just sit back and watch everyone chimes in. Male and female.

 We need to stop tearing each other down, seriously. If WE don’t have each others backs, THEY most certainly won’t!

I have a voice and I choose to use mine wisely. So I said all of that to say…LOVE yourself. If you do, you won’t have the time or the energy to spend spewing hatefulness onto someone else. Trust me, I’ve tried it. Hating is hard work. If I’m going to be working hard at something transactions MUST be involved. I would highly advise you not to be a hater if you’re not at all being paid for it. No ma’am.

Have a bowl of ice cream, take a selfie and be happy girl! The right clothes, I can assure you, can also help with that 😛

Anywho back to your regularly scheduled programming! Here’s today’s look

pencil skirt

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chandelier necklace

pencil skirt

Chanel Handbag

pencil skirt

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crop top ShopMarkkit
Pencil Skirt | F21
Gold Clutch | ShopMarkkit
Chandelier Necklace | Bell of California
Stiletto Heels | F21


I know you came for the outfit, but I couldn’t leave you without first sharing a little of what’s been on my mind the past few months :) ALSO, this makeup look shown in the photos is the same look from my Get Ready With Me Ankara makeup tutorial. Check it out if you want to see how I pulled off this stunning green smokey look!

I hope this is the start of a great week for all of you!


Get Ready With Me Ankara Festival LA 2014

So this year is my first time attending the Ankara Festival (I missed the fashion show, you know Nigerians are always late) but I popped in at the after party and had a blast. So beautiful seeing and meeting so many different African fusions and cultures that evening, I can’t wait until the next show, I will definitely be there!

So this was the makeup look I wore that night and the outfit I had planned.

blackUp Paris eyeshadow

ankara dress
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Ankara Festival LA Outfit of the Day

Raise your hand if you were in the building at last nights Ankara Festival LA! I snuck in the afterparty at the very last minute. Worked and shot all day. Anywho, this was last night’s look, some new goodies from my ShopMarkkit Collection included!

High waist pants

High Waist Pants

High Waist Pants

Crop Top

Chanel Clutch

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I played around with pastels and threw on a light blazer just for kicks




Gold Crop Top | shopmarkkit
High Waist Pants | Bell of California
Stilettos | Lola Shoetique
Gold Clutch | Shop Markkit
Pale Pink Blazer | shopmarkkit

It was great running into some of my viewers last night. Although I didn’t make it to the show I heard it was amazing and am so glad anytime I can help support an African event.

Warm thanks to Victoria Sanders of for snapping these photos for me. You guys have to check out her blog and follow her, she has the best style posts! @thevicstyles

Okay, I’m off to the LA County Fair, thanks for reading guys! xx

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Find Your Perfect Foundation Shade Match!

Find Your Foundation Shade

Hi ladies! How many of you out there struggle with finding the right foundation shade match? Apparently more of you than I thought when I uploaded my Best Foundations For Women of Color I got a lot of questions about finding the right shade of foundation, finding your undertones, etc. So I have managed to put together some easy tips on how to go about getting it right.

We will cover more specifically how to find your undertones in a later video ^_^


So first if you’re indecisive between which shade you are narrow it down to the three you think you may be.

Working your way from lightest to darkest, swatch all three of them on the center of your chest. I choose to shade match not only myself but my clients on the center on the chest because it insures that the face will match the body when being photographed and has yet to steer me wrong. Stay away from the neck because typically the neck is dramatic lighter than the face. Stay away from matching on the actual face because we as women of color tend to have different skin tones on our face, especially Africans. I am lighter in the center of my face and darker around the perimeter.

If one of the shades you chose looks ASHY is too light for you girl. When a foundation is too light for you it will read gray. If one of the shades looks too RED or orange if you’re medium complexion it’s too dark. You will definitely see a line of demarcation and it will look richer compared to your bare skin.

But your perfect match will melt right into the skin. You won’t be able to tell where the foundation starts and where it ends.


I would not recommend impulse buying on foundations because it’s also important that you test it out for at least a day to find out if it’s ideal for your skin type and does it oxidize (AKA darken throughout the day) on your skin. However, in an absolute pickle if you must buy a foundation that day and they don’t have your perfect match and you feel stuck, always go for a shade that’s a bit richer because dark skin is more forgiving. If you choose a shade that’s too late and you take a photo with flash you will see a white cast. A foundation that’s slightly too dark in some cases can be balanced with highlighting the face with concealer and/or face powders.


So I hope you all find my technique on shade matching helpful and if you have any questions please leave them in the comments below!